Ever After

December17th

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This year, Ariana divided her Christmas list into “Needs” and “Wants.”

Ariana

Being the frugal little soul that she is, there was only one item in each column. (Uncle David would be SO proud).

Need–a belt

Want–string

The belt, I understood.

But string??? When pressed for an explanation, she indicated that it would be really handy if she had her own own supply of string for when she wanted to do an art project or science experiment.  Currently, she has to ask to use Mom’s string, and sometimes Mom doesn’t want to share the string.

This is the kid that received a $15 Target gift card for her birthday back in August, and in her thank you note to her friend, she penned, “Thank you for the gift card.  I’ll be sure to use it wisely.”

Use it wisely? She’s 9 years old, for heaven’s sake.  And each time she tries to bring herself to use the gift card, she changes her mind because she can’t bear to part with the money.

Part of me is grateful for a child that is so fiscally responsible and unselfish; but part of me is worried that someone is going to get wind of her meager Christmas list and erroneously make us their Secret Santa project.

Ariana has the gift … the gift of being simple and amazingly untouched by worldly things.

I love this song and the beautiful sentiments it expresses. It epitomizes Ariana:
[audio:http://tolberts.org/lori/Audio/simplegifts.mp3]

‘Tis the gift to be simple, ’tis the gift to be free,

‘Tis the gift to come down where we ought to be,
And when we find ourselves in the place just right,

‘Twill be in the valley of love and delight.
When true simplicity is gain’d,

To bow and to bend we shan’t be asham’d,
To turn, turn will be our delight,

Till by turning, turning we come round right.

3 Comments

  • Comment by Lindsay Kay — December 18, 2009 @ 10:24 am

    What a beautiful example that is to me! More people should be this way, all year round!

  • Comment by Gillian — December 19, 2009 @ 3:26 pm

    My initial thought was that she was planning to use the string as a belt incase she got what she wanted and not what she needed!

  • Comment by Cindy Thomas — December 25, 2009 @ 1:08 am

    Oh my! Her and Ben would be DANGEROUS together! Ben still has a couple of gift cards (somewhere in his room).

    The kids exchanged names this year ($20 limit) and Chris got Ben. Chris & I shopped and shopped but just had NO LUCK! When asked what he wanted Ben never did come up with anything under $20… and the few things he DID come up with were WAY OVER the limit. Oh well… I guess I can be grateful that he is not IN NEED!

    Merry Christmas To You All!

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